Guy rejected me after 4 dates, also got intimate and had been speaking for at least 2 months. I sensed he was fading out so I confronted him, and he said he couldn’t commit to something serious atm due to external circumstances, but he liked me, loved our time together, and wouldn’t mind seeing me again in the future. This has left me all kinds of confused. Things were also going so well, seemingly.
I know he got out of a long term relationship only 6 months ago, which left him quite crushed- so that could be a factor.
Things were moving quite fast between us, which may have scared him away.
I’ve tried to move on, speak with new people, but all the conversations just fall flat.
He was the first person I had genuine feelings for in 3 years, after thinking there was something wrong with me. He showed genuine interest in what I had to say, was kind, honest etc. so that makes this harder.
I worry I’ll not feel the same again. It’s been 2 weeks since we last spoke and I still think about him constantly 😞 also those thoughts of “why wasn’t I enough” etc.
also had he just said he wasn’t interested, I’d be like damn but okay. But it was all these external reasons as to why he couldn’t commit (maybe moving, work and visa stress).
Any advice for me to just accept this and move on, and to stop blaming myself ?