I (21 F) have been dating my boyfriend (21 M) for about a year and a half. everything is great. we have minor disagreements and view some things differently but that’s normal in healthy relationships. One consistent issue we have is regarding his insecurities. I’ve always had more guy friends in my life than girls, not for any particular reason that’s just how my life has always been. He knows this because we’ve known each other for years before dating and we met through one of our mutual guy friends. I cut contact with guys that i have any sort of history with (no matter how small) when i began dating my current boyfriend so all the friends in my life are simply platonic. however recently he’s started getting upset when i mention my male friends and making weird jokes regarding me wanting more with them than to just be friends. (i’ve known these guys for years now and nothing has ever or would ever happen. there are more girls in the group than just me and its the same with them.) I’ve started feeling guilty for having these friends in my life knowing he doesn’t like that i have male friends but i don’t want to cut off meaningful, harmless friendships because of his insecurities alone. I keep wishing i was like normal girls with a large group of girl friends so i wouldn’t feel judged or rejected because of who i associate myself with. any advice?
TL;DR: My boyfriend has been acting weird about harmless guy friends that i’ve been friends with for years and it’s been making me feel guilty even though they are just my friends with 0 history and i haven’t done anything wrong.