Boys, men, can you give me some advice?
My boyfriend and hopefully future husband has acne and since the beginning of our relationship he has mentioned that he doesn't like his face or hair touched. That's very sad for me because these gestures are very intimate… The hair part is okay, I try not to mess it up and he isn't so strict about that anymore and I don't touch his face with my hands. But today I attack-kissed him all over his neck and face (I sometimes have an uncontrollable urge to literally devour him) and he was like wincing and told me that he doesn't like his face kissed. And also before going out he puts on a lip cream because when we live in a cold climate and I can't even kiss him on the lips… I mean I get it, but at the same time it frustrates me.
Any help, y'all? He has also been less affectionate (or as it seems) and I'm afraid that there's less connection
Edit: no, we're not considering splitting up, I love this person and I'm not going to walk away just because of one problem. The sex life is great, but it's a turn off for me when I constantly have to control my hands/think what can I kiss during the act
Edit 2: he has an obsession about how he looks so ruining his hair and all that is a big deal…
Edit 3: he likes being touched and kissed, he likes kissing with tongue and he literally likes spitting and smearing all of that in a sloppy kiss, but then he's whining about me pecking him on the forehead or his eyes and nose/cheeks/neck where he has no acne. It's not as simple as you guys think