I'm a guy 24 about to turn 25 in a few months. I've never dated and never had sex. As far as I know no one has been interested in me. I come from an emotional abusive house hold with parents who never really cared about me. Ended up dropping out of highschool my freshman year after being bullied on my school bus. I started isolating myself after I found my father hanging. Gained a shit ton of weight because of it. In the last 3 years or so I've turned my life around. Lost some weight and started working out more. Got a job and met a lot of friends through it and have gotten to travel and see new places. Started doing my hobbies again. Went back to school to get my GED. Yet doing basically everything this sub tells guys to do I've had no luck with women and dating. And I'm starting to get to the age that most people say having no experience is a huge red flag. And now I'm at the point we're I've seen all my friends and family meet people without having to go through this bullshit self improvement journey where you change everything thing about yourself. So what age should we start being honest with people and start telling them that dating won't happen rather than saying shit like it will happen when you least expect it? How do you let go of sex and dating?