hi, just had a baby with my bf and found out he watches porn even though I told him I didn’t like that in a partner. he claims I’m trying to control his thoughts and I’m invading his privacy, when to me it’s a boundary and sign of disrespect. not sure how to handle this since we have a newborn but it’s really hurting me and I don’t know what to do. when we discussed it previously he said he would stop because he wanted our relationship to work, and now he says he said those things because I was crying and manipulated him. I’m really confused. I love him but I don’t love that he watches porn, and I don’t feel like I’m being controlling but he keeps saying I am and that all guys watch porn and he also said I should have found a religious partner if I didn’t want someone who watches porn. like what? lol