Ive been seeing this girl for the past few months and absolutely love her. She’s my first girlfriend, and we do everything together.
Last night, she slept over, and we decided to take this to the next level and have sex (I’ve never had sex before). But when she first saw my penis I could tell she was quickly no longer in the mood. It wasn’t long till she said that she was too tired for this, (I ofc respected her decision and got dressed) so we just put some Netflix on and eventually went to sleep.
In the next morning, I asked her about what happened last night and she tells me that was the first time shes seen a circumcised penis irl, (she’s had 2 boyfriends before me) and that she doesn’t really like how it looks.
Well this really fucked me up, since I always thought my penis was just alright looking? After she left, I took a close look at myself in the bathroom, and maybe I can understand where she’s coming from?
I don’t really know what to say to her to improve this situation. I really really wanna stay with her, I absolutely love this girl, and don’t ever see myself breaking up with her. But I’m worried she sees this as a dealbreaker. I’ve briefly looked at some reconstructive treatments to bring the foreskin back, but idk if I’m ready to do that just yet. How could I bring this up to her without making things worse?
TLDR: gf doesn’t like how my circumcised penis looks. What could I possibly say or do to improve the situation?