My partner and I have been sexually active for a few months now. Overall, the sex is great; mutual pleasure was set on the upper list of things from the get-go. Its romantic and cheesy and I love them.
We mostly stick to the easier positions because I am on the larger side and a lot of the more complex or "deepening" positions result in going too deep/causing bruising.
However, we both'd like to try the riding positions more often – Both front and reverse. Problem being: They feel very little, sometimes nothing. Which is unheard of in any other position.
We already experimented with angles, tempo, movement directions. But there seems to be nothing really doing it.
Neither of us really wants to take it off of the list unless theres seriously no solution. Mostly them because they want to have a position where they can be on top too.
So my question kinda would be; Are we overseeing anything? Are there unheard tricks to making it better?
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Without knowing your gender I’m finding it hard to offer a suggestion as it’s hard to fathom the impact a position has on either partner.
Have you tried adding a vibrating cock ring to the mix?