Question 1- Will it ruin the orgasam if I keep thrusting while she’s having one or should I stop until she’s done.
Question 2- When she rides me she actually doesn’t tend to bounce up in down she likes when I hold her on it and she somehow finishes like that with no thrusting needed.
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1. Depends on the person, ask her what she likes.
2. Most people prefer grinding to thrusting when they’re on top ime, I dunno if that’s what you’re talking about but whatever it is it’s normal
Try fiddling her clitoris while penetration this will result in a strong orgasm for her and keep going until she orgasms
Whatever you are doing when her orgasm starts, keep doing it until she tells you to stop
The only answer that matters is her’s. Ask her. If you mix sex with open communication, your game will go up to a whole new level.
On a more general note, while there are things most people like, at the end of the day, each person is different and what one loves, other may not.
Both are things you should absolutely ask her about. 2 isn’t uncommon. Some people just like feeling full or stretched. If she clenches and releases on you this wau especially. Glad you two have found ways to enjoy each other. Keep it up.
1- I like my partner to stop but sometimes he wants to thrust because he is also almost there. So It should be mutual understanding.
2- It depends, I would prefer grinding over move up and down.
These are good questions that as many have tell you, it’s more a her question than Reddit, but just so you have an idea, the equivalent of a man’s tip or head is the clit on a woman.
So imagine you are at it but the stimulation is only on the shaft of your tool. You won’t feel as much or any, in some woman this is exactly what they feel.
The first one, you’d have to ask her– it would ruin it for me.
The second question is not a question at all, it’s a statement. But, she’s likely grinding her clitoris against some part of your body.
Whatever you’re doing when she starts to orgasm DO NOT CHANGE A FUCKING THING. If you are thrusting at a certain pace when she starts, keep doing exactly that.
Most women who orgasm on top do so from rubbing their clitoris on your pubic bone/lower abdomen. Bouncing is something you see in porn because it looks good, it’s not what usually feels good for the woman. It is not the thrusting that causes the orgasm. It’s the fricton of the clitoris on your body. 80% of women need clitoral stimulation for orgasm to happen. The penis in the vagina action isn’t what brings on orgasm. It does for men – because most nerve endings are in the head of the penis. But women’s nerve endings are in the clitoris. If you look at an anatomy drawings you can see that the clitoris isn’t anywhere near the vaginal opening.
If what you’re doing is making her orgasm, NEVER STOP until she says so.
These are based on my experience, but I would suggest you ask your partner on what she likes.
1. Whatever you’re doing when I’m cumming, do not stop until I’m done. Same rhythm, sam pace
2. Everyone is different but the sitting/grinding position will usually touch all the right spots. But I also like when I’m riding, lean forward on top of my man, and he grabs my ass and pounds me from underneath
Q1, ask her
Q2, she’s massaging her clit between her pelvic bone and yours. Grab her hips and enjoy the show
Keep doing what you are doing when her body starts trembling or she starts to moan/ scream louder
Talk to her about it outside the bedroom. Keep thrusting if she’s not reacting negatively to it. If she’s says stop or pulls away, then you should stop. I know some women can get crazy sensitive to the point it hurts to touch.
You do t need thrusting as a woman grinding is awesome
When they say don’t stop please don’t stop, yes fuck me harder that’s what you do.
1) she’s probably not actually having an orgasm just from thrusting, so just keep going and finish.
2) Because what actually feels good for women is clitoral stimulation, penetration is a far second.
That’s completely up to her
It’s my understanding that men have a “point of no return” where they are having an orgasm no matter what. Women don’t work that way.
A woman’s orgasm immediately stops if you stop or change what you are doing. Keep doing exactly what you were doing, exactly how you were doing it, unless she tells you to change something or indicates it’s complete.
Question 1 ….ask her but don’t stop.
Question two…let her be the controller but if there is thrusting involved at a certain angle then don’t forget to fuck the fuck back! 😉
Most women I’ve been with prefer the same pace, rhythm and pressure until the end of their orgasm. Some like for it to stay the same after orgasm as well, where it overlaps into multiple orgasms.some prefer for things to wind down and the feeling to be built back up. The easiest way to know is to just ask tho.