there has been zero intimacy in my relationship for going on six months, my partner has no desire to have a conversation about it, to fix it or to even acknowledge it and I just don’t know what to do anymore. I’ve tried to speak about it for months. I get stalemated or excuses like “it’s not the right time, I’m just tired, well you know I have been working a lot of overtime,(he did start working overtime but way after this started so it doesn’t have anything to do with it in my personal opinion) and the best excuse was my birthday two days ago. I had to go pick up a new car cause my car crapped out on me. Yes I did end up getting a little busy with the insurance place and what not I was gone for maybe three hours got nothing and was told that it wasn’t his fault that I was busy with other priorities on my birthday so he couldn’t be intimate with me and that it was my fault….I’m just at a loss of what to do so I guess I’m asking for some advice.


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