okay so i really need to rant because this whole situation is honestly making me uncomfortable and i cant tell if im overreacting or if its genuinely as weird as it feels
my boyfriend lives in a penthouse with four other guys they all pay equal rent and it’s already the typical messy chaotic boyhouse but now there’s this extra thing happening that just feels off
one of the guys has a girlfriend and she is there literally every single day like she’s basically living there at this point even though she’s not on the lease not paying rent nothing and somehow everyone is acting like this is normal
the part that really gets me is that whenever she comes over the couple ends up taking my boyfriends room because they want “privacy” and he lets them because he’s too sweet and doesn’t want to make a scene and i’m sitting here losing my mind because why is he the one adjusting for their relationship
and honestly i don’t understand how the girlfriend isn’t weirded out herself like i would feel so awkward being in a house full of guys
every day taking over someone else’s space like that it just feels so shameless and boundaryless
i actually ended up texting one of the other roommates because i genuinely wanted to know if they also found this weird or if i’m just imagining things and i apologized afterwards in case it was too much but it was genuinely bothering me
and then my boyfriend said something like “where will they cuddle then” and i’m like bro that is not your job to figure out they can cuddle in literally any other corner of the planet but why is it happening in your room and why are you the one moving around
i just hate seeing him adjust for something that doesn’t even involve him and it makes me feel protective and uncomfortable because he pays rent he deserves his own space and this whole setup feels unfair and strange
am i weird for finding this weird
ps: its five people and 3 rooms, he has the only single room