Hi everyone,
I’ve been spending time with someone I really like. They’re kind, amazing, and I enjoy being around them. I recently learned that their condition is in fact progressive (before this their disability was apparent but we hadn't discussed the specifics) that affects their mobility and will get worse over time. The condition itself effects both their mobility and coordination.
I care about them and value our connection, but I’m realizing I may not have the emotional or practical capacity to commit to a long-term romantic relationship under these circumstances. I don’t want to hurt them, and I also don’t want to pretend I can handle something I might not be able to.
I’m struggling with how to approach this conversation, how to be honest and respectful without causing unnecessary pain? Has anyone been in a similar situation, or does anyone have advice for handling this delicately?
I want to reiterate that I understand things can happen at any time to anyone. Knowing that there's a chance that in a few years, they may not be around is difficult to accept. Additionally, there was a friend from school many years ago who was in a similar position and passed away quite early. I'm not sure I can romantically enter it that knowing what the realistic outcome will be even if they are a really great person…