I (27F) tried to hint to my fiance(31M) that we havent "made out" in a long time, hoping maybe i could swing around being super direct (im not a very forward person) and he said that "making out is for highschoolers" and he made it seem that after the chase is over and we get married that he no longer feels the need(or more important the WANT) for it… its made me think back and he doesnt kiss me like he used to OR during the deed anymore.. and then i started to realize its any form of physical touch he doesnt like, though ive expressed my need of physical intimacy in the past. and im not talking about the deed itself, im taking about little things like grabbing my hand to hold just because, or a cheek kiss, a butt grab in passing, even just a hug. hugs even seem forced and like hes pulling away the whole time.
i know he loves me but i feel like imploding. i know his love language is not physical touch but lately i feel like ive been over analysing and craving being touched, thinking about when we first started dating and he seemed like he wanted to now its non-existant. this may seem all over the place but i dont know how to approach this.. am i overreacting? am i straight up delusional? help ðŸ˜
TL;DR : My fiance has stopped being physical with me and i feel like im going crazy. Physical Touch is my love language but not his. How do we compromise and am i overreacting?