Why do people ghost on premade arrangements?! I swapped shifts and went a long way just to be able to see this lady tonight, as we agreed beforehand. Then this evening she started:
- delaying, making excuses
- then sharing her position in a completely different area of the city (30 min from where we agreed on) saying her group held her and "I am coming"
- finally, after 2 hrs total I gave up and went home.
Only once I was already in the train she showed me their new destination (still far from where I was waiting) and tried to call me; since I would rather not talk when angry, I just texted her to enjoy her time and goodnight.
Now I know, no one is entitled to anything, but for f*** sake, why not telling me "hey join us we will go [here]"? Or if she changed her mind, why not just cancel the date? I stood like a freezing idiot for nothing. I guess I am just bitter and angry now. At least I had some pizza.