hi everyone, my husband and I are currently in the process of looking for our first home. We’ve been married for two years. I am honestly so angry & frustrated rn.
Since day 1, we’ve been looking & looking, and he’s the most indecisive person ever. Just in this house thing. He comes up with all sorts of crazy impulsive ideas, like what if we move to fricking Florida all of a sudden. Still I didn’t oppose, I said okay sure I’m open. Next day? No no I don’t want Florida, what about Texas? I’m getting tired and fed up.
We found a home with everything we wanted, and he was over the moon, he kept us up until 3 in the morning just looking at it and researching it, I was so sleepy, and I kept saying dude we can do this in the morning. Nothing. Next day? He hates it. It’s too far from everything.
I told him I’m getting really fucking tired!! This is exhausting, extreme feelings within hours, etc. he apologized and recognized it. But I’m too angry tbh. I don’t know if he’s even reliable. Then he wants to involve my father in law, to co-sign. I said no, we don’t need that. That was settled.
It’s just exhausting. Everytime I make a list, and find options, but I can never trust his feelings on anything. I’m just so so pissed off rn. I ended up yelling at him, I am just so fucking upset. At this rate we won’t own at all. Ever. We were supposed to move out last year, and we ended up renewing our lease instead because again we couldn’t “find” anything. He’s so insanely picky. I’m losing my fucking mind.