Me (28F) and my Husband (28M) have been married for 6 months now. We were playing a silly little quiz games and one of the questions was a choice between one of my favorite things ever and something else. My husband was convinced that I hated the thing I love. Like when I told him I had multiple instances of telling him I loved it and getting the thing around him he was swearing up and down that I had told him I hated it before.
Anyways, after the many many examples I told him of how I told him I loved it and showed him (it’s lavender, I drink it, have every smelly thing imaginable, bath stuff, febreeze, perfumes, it’s on my snacks and in my coffee, I love it) we continued asking what we knew about each other.
It turns out I know way more of my husbands things than he knows about me. Like he literally only knew my favorite color and middle name. I knew all of his things (fave smells, foods, author, musician, etc.)
It made me sad and then he got upset because he didn’t know anything about me and then I had to comfort him.
So it’s been weighing on me for a few days now that not only does he not know me, but I couldn’t even be upset over it because I had to comfort him for not knowing or caring enough to remember things about me that we’ve talked about many, many times. It’s just sad and it makes me sad