I 'M26' have the feeling that my partner 'F31' is a bit emotionally immature…or there are some serious double standards. I let her know that i was going to be on the game with some friends to which she replied was fine. We are in the same house. A bit of time goes past and she texts me, i didnt see it and so she calls and my phone was on silent somehow. Anyway, i hear her slamming the doors and i just knew something happened, i got multiple messages from her. She was pissed. The texts weren't important but the sole fact that i missed it was. I apologised and told her that my phone had been on charge and must've been on silent, not good enough clearly. She remains angry and now i can't do what i would like which is play video games with some friends because it crosses her boundaries. Its a weekend, i work 5 days and now it feels like im in timeout. An issue that could have been resolved had she just walked over to the room next door and let me know what she wanted.
When she's playing video games, its like those people that lose it when you walk in front of the tv. She will miss texts, calls and sometimes i have to ask people through stream that shes playing with to tell her to check her phone. All i get is "sorry babe" I dont get pissed, angry or anything because i understand that it can happen. But God forbid i do the same. I genuinely feel like this is such a huge double standard, that she won't admit to. We've had many fights over this. How the hell does one deal with something like this? It'll probably drag into tomorrow as well.