Me (37F) and my boyfriend (40M) of 7 months have a great relationship overall. We are living long-distance now, but he plans to move to my town mid-next year. He has been great support as I have been going through a rough time personally these last couple of months, but for some reason, he seems to have snapped.
I am spending Thanksgiving with my sister and her family and my kids. He is by himself in his state. I texted him throughout the day as usual go give him companionship and love, but about halfway through the day, my boyfriend started asking me, "Who is this?" And saying he knows it isn't me talking, which it was. He kept getting more insane with it…saying I was actually my sister, saying my ex was impersonating me or took control of my phone, and saying this was breaking his heart and that he was concerned whether I was okay. I was trying to tell him I was my normal self, but was preoccupied with family activity, but he wouldn't let it go.
My boyfriend then called me that night and I spoke to him, but I was being calm and quiet because I lacked privacy in my sister's house. I answered all of his personal questions and he just kept saying, "What is going on?" And that I was creeping him out. He said my voice didn't sound like me, called me robotic, and said I was an AI voice. SMH. Nothing was able to appease him. He ultimately said he would not talk to me until he "figured this out." I haven't heard from him all day. We both asked each other if the other had taken something that would change our behavior, and both denied doing so. I'm starting to wonder if he's gone psychotic, but I have known him for 13 years and never seen behavior like this out of him. Does anyone know what is happening with him or how I should respond? I love him and I just want him to believe me, but this was hurtful too.