Hello everyone. I'm currently in a though spot. So I (M21) have a girlfriend (21) we met in College and we have been together for 1 year and 8 months now. For the last 5 months I have noticed that I am loosing feelings towards my girlfriend, most of the time I feel like I'm just hanging around a friend and not my girlfriend. Not to long ago I started having a small crush on a College friend. My problem is that my girlfriend is really an amazing person and an amazing girlfriend. She always supported me, is there for me. There is not one bad thing I could say about her. I'm really mad at myself for feeling the way I do. It's like having a job that you love and that pays really really well, but after some time wanting to quit. I can't understand why I am loosing feeling. I'm not happy about it. I also want to be fair and don't want to waste her time. Have you had a similar experience. Even if I broke it off I wouldn't be able to give her a proper reason, just that I lost feelings. Is this normal? Will this behaviour keep happening? Will the spark come back or should we see other people? Thanks for reading, I appreciate your response and advice!