My experience is limited girls asking me out. Seriously, I've never been in a relationship wbere the girls aren't the ones asking. It usually went something like this:
Her: Will you go out with me?
Me: Yeah.
And nus like thst, I was someone's boyfriend.
But that was all so long ago. The last one ending in 2009. Now, it just doesn't work like that. Apparently, grown men like me (38), are supposed to take initiative. I don't even try much anymore, but when I do, it goes not-exactly something likethis:
Me: Hey, wanna go out?
Women: We're all married and you're too young.
Before you ask why I hit on married women, the answer is k don't always they're married. I can't see the finger unless it's right in my face. Visually impaired, y'know? But that's not what this is about.
What I wanna know is, how do you know for certain you're in a relationship? Whenyoj go on a first date? After your first kiss? Or when you go into a room and make a lot of noise?
I haven't been anyone's boyfriend in a very long time, okay? Everyone is married and not a cradle robber. I haven't been really trying! So excuse my goofy dumbness. I'm just curious. 🤔 🤣