No clue if this is a good place to ask but idk anywhere better to ask
I've been dating my girlfriend for just over two years and we're in a very happy relationship. We essentially live together, we share everything, and we are very supportive of one another.
When my friends ask if I will marry her, I've begun to say I can see it happening as I really do love her and can see myself with her long term.
The "issue" is our differing libidos. We still still enjoy being close and physically affectionate but if it were up to her we would never have sex and if it were up to me we would have sex every day. Because of this, I've adopted strategies to handle myself over time which has put less strain on our relationship help keep it healthy.
Recently we just realized that we hadn't had sex for over a month, despite me typically aiming to have sex at least once a week. Part of me thinks that's because of her lack of interest, my lack of need, and me not wanting to get rejected by her again. Honestly, our relationship otherwise might legitimately be as perfect as it gets, but sometimes I can't help and wish that our sex life was better.
Now I'm just wondering if a reason like that is significant enough to leave my girlfriend entirely? Im curious if anyone here is experiencing a marriage under similar conditions. Do you have regrets? How do you handle it? If I should end it, how would I even go about it?