So I've been taking some singing lessons just because I enjoy it and want to be a little bit better at it. I hadn't told my partner yet because I was feeling like she wouldn't really like it so I was gonna see if it was something for me before telling her. Turns out I enjoy it and would like to continue this hobby. Now the last time I went to a lesson together with a family member and I told my gf I'm gonna go with her because she is scared to go alone (which is true) and she was okay with that.
I return home and told her I enjoyed it and may want to keep doing it.
She says I can say goodbye to the relationship if I do that. This is what I kind of feared would happen. So we're having a calm little bit of back and forth where I'm basically like isn't that a bit overboard etc. And I stress like, what if I really enjoyed it? And she's like no that's just gay (in a negative sense I guess) and I'm not gonna have a boyfriend that does singing. I left it at that because I didn't want to escalate.
I'm feeling honestly almost disrespected by this and don't understand it very well. Do I keep doing it in secret (it really bugs me to do it like that) or do I just stop it to keep the peace?