Do you assume you are a good spouse. Can anybody admit that they are the primary problem in the marriage? Recently I was with some married couples and the question was raised "What do you think it's like on the other side of you"? The way everyone saw themselves was not how their spouse sees them and it led to some very interesting conversations and honestly began some healing in one couple in particular. What do you think it's like on the other side of you ? Would your spouse agree? Are you bold enough to have this honest conversation with your spouse?