Long story short- my MIL was rude and disrespectful for me for the first two years of my daughter's life (taking my crying baby out of my arms, refusing to let me feed her, interrupting me, eye rolling, telling me I'm wrong in front of my child, the list goes on). My husband didn't believe me. On the day I had finally had enough, his eyes were opened. Since then I'm no contact with her, and she's taken no accountability. She has offered one thing that was supposed to be an apology but basically excused her behaviors. He and my three year old still see her once a month. He has asked her to apologize, but she said no.
I'm having a hard time moving past this. My husband is cool with him and our daughter seeing someone who openly disrespected me and refuses to take accountability. He thinks I need to get over how she treated me.
Has anyone divorced due to their MIL and ended up happier? We've been in marriage counseling for four months now, but we cannot seem to move past this. He doesn't understand how him seeing his mom hurts me so much.