I love going down on my girlfriend and she does too, and I usually do it once or twice most times we have sex (unless she’s on her period or something). But I can’t do it for long periods of time because it often hurts my neck and breathing is sometimes difficult.
Usually physically, how we’re positioned is she’s lying down on the bed and I’m below her at the foot-end of the bed laying flat, with my feet dangling off and my neck angled upwards. But with my neck craned up at that angle, it gets pretty uncomfortable (and even sometimes hurts the next day). Also, I can only really breathe with my nose for the most part and even that is on/off depending on the way we’re both moving.
Other things we’ve tried are with her sitting on my face, which I enjoy but hurts her knees after a bit. We’ve also tried with her on the edge of the bed and me kneeling on a pillow on the ground, which was better for me but uncomfortable the way her legs need to sit on the edge of our bed. Neither of really enjoy 69.
What other positions should we try so I can go down on her more comfortably? Or is there a type of chair/apparatus that could help?