I (29F) have been talking to a guy (30M) for about 3.5 weeks. Our first date was coffee and we walked around for a couple hours. Due to him traveling the next weekend and me getting sick the weekend after that, our second date was delayed to almost 3 weeks after the first.
The second date went well and lasted almost 24 hours (he slept over but we didn’t have sec because I set a boundary). We also met up with his friend at a bar on this date. We have another date planned about a week and half after that one because he is traveling again.
To me it seems crazy to be talking to someone for almost a month and only having two dates so far. Both of us are very busy and he is involved in a lot of hobbies.
His texting is slow and sometimes he takes an entire day to respond but he does ask thoughtful questions and keeps the convo going.
He also mentioned that he used to jump into relationships too fast and has worked hard to not do that.
He seems interested but do you think this is too slow? I’m trying to take into account him traveling twice and me being sick this past month.