I'm someone who spirals if I'm don't get a text back. And I'm really trying my hardest to get over this mentality of "if he wanted to he would" and that someone should constantly be texting me if they actually want something serious with me.
But, is it something that should be happening ALL the time? Like what's the limit? When is the point where I should just be like "okay yeah this guy doesn't care at all" and "maybe he really is just busy!". I feel like if I'm constantly self sabotaging because I do have anxious attachment and it really ruins all of my potential relationships.
Right now, I'm a bit of a LDR situationship and it's been so hard having to remind myself that this person doesn't hate me or is manipulating me. Because he works and has a life outside of me but sometimes I go up to two days without hearing from him. And even when I do reach out it sometimes takes a while. He's a great guy but I feel like I'm not worth his time. Even tho he's really good reassuring me but just sucks with communication.
Please don't judge me, I'm actually looking for advice to actually improve myself. F32.