I've seen many people talk about squeezing when a guy is inside them but I've never been able to do so? For context I'm 26F, just lost my virginity earlier this year and have been with 2 partners so far. The most recent one is satisfactorily endowed. Maybe 6inch with a slightly above avergae girth. I just find that I am unable to squeeze when his penis is inside me, like I somehow have no strength or just am unable to do it.
Is this because I have weak pelvic floor muscles, or is it because the vaginal/pelvic floor muscles are already at a stretched state so it's at an inefficient length for the muscles to contract and squeeze? I can definitely control and squeeze those same muscles when theres nothing in me, or when the gspot vibrator i use is of a smaller size. Just not when a penis is inside me.
I've also never been able to orgasm, even by myself. Wondering if it might be related to a possibly ?weak pelvic floor?
Has anyone experienced a similar issue whereby you just are unable to contract your vaginal walls around a guy's cock? Even when you do know how to activate the same muscles at rest?