I’ve been talking with a man who I met on an app that is looking for long term relationship, but open to a short term relationship and is open to kids. (As opposed to “wants kids”).
I’m 38 and want marriage and kids. I’ve kind of always thought that I would only entertain men who explicitly want kids and only long term (as opposed to just open).
To me it could be a values misalignment if one is certain they want marriage and kids and the other is open to it but would be ok without either of those.
Curious to hear your thoughts on this.