Please legit advice. My husband gets mad at me and loses it for a few hours and it’s become really hard… like for instance at 3 am two nights ago our 2 year old is sleeping on me and I’m 38 weeks pregnant. And he started screaming at me and I keep begging him to wait til in the morning and he can yell all he wants but don’t wake our little one and scare him and wait for him to be away from us. He just doesn’t stop.. he keeps yelling and just being super mean.. don’t forget I’m super pregnant as well… and don’t sleep good anyway. And he says it’s all me because of money I spent. Whatever I spend money I make more than him too. Anyway I don’t want to fight in front of our children. I have a 13 year old and he has dealt with a lot. But he gets so mean and says he hates me and just calls me horrible names. He just recently, since I become pregnant has put hands on me like choking a couple of times or like pulling my hair or grabbing my face hard or pulling my arm away. But I don’t yell back I beg him to calm down and stop. He just will rage text me from the other room or if I leave I’ll get 20 texts in 2 minutes. I get torn down constantly. But for 18 years we have had a pretty good marriage. We had fights in our 20s and at first he was calm and would just hug me. And I was a little young and immature and couldn’t control my emotions. But luckily I am very good at just staying calm and trying to agree with him now. But like he says things and threatens divorce then stays. But he has been distant. Granted I’m pregnant and had some pains here and there but I tell him I want sex. And it’s just decreased a ton. He wants head still which I do whenever he wants. But I just am lost because I love him so much and when he is good he is great and fun and loves our boys. And we have another one coming any day. But like why is he screaming and doesn’t care for our children to deal with it. It’s killing me, my chest hurts a lot and I’ve had the worst stress this pregnancy.. it has worried me. But also know I think he is stressed about life and works from home and for 90% of our marriage we have been attached at the hip. It was almost like we were one and we have been really close and always been so good. I’m so confused on what is happening! Please know he wouldn’t hurt the kids and I told my family about the hands on me and he hasn’t done anything since. I think he was raged out and not even realizing he was hurting me. He is a good dad when it comes to it, he cooks and gets them ready and takes them with him alone and has stayed up with both and changed diapers always and played with them! It’s been great. His worst thing is he plays games all days on Saturday or Sunday sometimes. And plays after work. Works remote with me and so we are home all the time. I just want to know do I fight or give up? I want the name calling and being screamed at to be over. But I want my husband back.