I only recently have been introduced to the idea of doing anything involving penetration and only recently began to realize that most of the time it was uncomfortable because im not “wet” enough and it quickly makes things uncomfortable and sometimes painful, mostly and only with toys (when i masturbate + having a strap used on me) and even with lube, sometimes i feel like the lube isn’t enough either because in the middle of sex or masturbation, I’ll have to reapply lubricant because it’s just not enough and things starts to get painful and uncomfy.
Is this a common problem or is there some kind of disorder that makes you not as “wet”? I’ve read books and fanfiction that talk about girls “dripping wet” and I thought it was always just an exaggeration because it’s never happened to me but now I just think it might just be something wrong with me