We are 30 and been together for a bit less than a year now.
He is unemployed and does not clean, also not the best hygiene. He does cook though.
We do get along great generally although he sometimes complains about me neglecting (i work 8 hrs a day from monda to saturday). We spend together about 1 hr at dinner, about 5 hrs a week in the mornings and sundays. I also want to join the army reserves which he hates.
Is this manageable?