I’m early thirties, late bloomer and have always had a hard time finding interested women. I’ve had one short-term relationship which last all of about 6 months a few years ago. Since then its just been a handful of dates, a few hookups and that’s about it.
My biggest hurdle is just finding women who are genuinely into me. For the longest time I’ve been told if a woman into you, she’ll show it and make it easy for you….For me trying to date has always felt like pulling teeth.
Doesn’t matter if it’s a dating app or I met someone at a bar or out and about with friends. The women I approach are always so luke warm with me. I never get the flirtatious smiles, trying to plan things is exhausting and even if we manage to go on a date, texting going forward is always painfully slow.
When I look at other guys, the girl is always putting her head on his shoulder, laughing at everything he says, texts him back quickly etc etc. I have no idea what that’s like.
Am I just choosing the wrong women? How do I find women who are actually into me?