Hey guys, my gf gets pain when I first enter PIV and it oftentimes takes her a second to adjust but she also gets lingering pain or what she describes as a burn or stretch too. I figure this is a lube issue but she is adamant she doesn’t want to use lube so instead I bought some extra lube condoms and we have used those once to where it seemed like her pain was less but still noticeable to start.
I feel like these are a win as the friction was significantly less and she didn’t seem in much pain at all during but it isn’t the biggest sample size as we haven’t gotten to use them again just yet.
Any other suggestions on how to help her? Do we take sex off the table until she feels completely pain free and what are ways to help her get there? Finger play only?