So for starters we were both virgins when we met and we’ve only been with each other. Before we even had sex it’s what I wanted to was to give her an orgasm and I still really do. I’m not worried about from sex I mean from giving head. She masturbates and gets to a point where she breathes heavy and her legs lock up or close and she says it feels good but doesn’t think it’s an orgasm and she also said fingering doesn’t really feel like anything. I don’t know if what she’s experiencing from masturbation is really an orgasm or not and I’m not sure what to do to even get her there.