I was never that lucky with the ladies, at least romantically. Women loved me and said I was great and awesome and everybody wanted to be close friends and hang out one on one, but it stopped there, platonically. That's fine, I just want to show that I'm not experienced at all.
But 5 months ago that finally, FINALLY changed. Met someone through Tinder and we have hit it off since.
I'm still in this drug-induced mist, still trying to understand what kind of life-changing event I'm in and that finally it was my turn. I'm just enjoying my time, not thinking about much else at all, and I can just think about all the cool stuff I want to do together.
I do want kids…eventually. But not right now. I want to enjoy my first ever relationship just like how all my friends did back when we were in our teens and early 20s. Just enjoy life, just enjoy company and do fun stuff together. I'm also studying in trade school to become a freight forwarding agent, a class that is 2 years long, so things I want to do like travel the world will have to wait until I'm finished and have a job.
Anyways, my girlfriend has in the last few weeks started to hint at moving together and start planning for a family.
I would be fine to move in together. That would also free up some more money for me. But she knows I want to wait with kids, as I first need to finish my studies and then I want to travel the world with her and go backpacking in Thailand, Vietnam, Japan and such, go on week-long music festivals and such, and that will be difficult with a kid.
When we've talked before I've talked about it, I've said that around when I'm 40 I think we should've had enough time to finish school, get a job, save up for at least one long trip and experience it and we can start a family.
Not sure if she forgot, but if so, how do I gently remind her of that and that I feel a bit stressed and just want to enjoy this huge change in my life?
We haven't fought or anything at all, but I am curious that she brought it up again this weekend when I thought I had given my view.
TL;DR My first ever girlfriend, it's great but she's started to rush moving in and start a family. What do?