I (22f) have been struggling with sexual activity since I was pretty young. Things as small as a kiss or hug would make me cringe. That’s the only way I know how to describe it. I’ll have these long stretches where I love having sex but then I’ll have just as long of a stretch with feeling like I can’t do anything. We’re talking about stretches of a few months. I have a partner I love he makes me feel so safe and loved and still when he tries to initiate I get that cringe feeling. There are times where I really want sex but I feel like I just can’t do it? I’ve always thought it was low libido or bad partners , but now I’m not sure. I think it has to be tied to my horrible anxiety and I don’t know how to work through it. If anyone has experienced the same or has any advice I would appreciate it. I just feel bad because my partners love language is physical touch and I feel like I can’t fulfill his needs. He doesn’t make me feel bad about it but he has mentioned that it feels like I’m not attracted to him anymore but he understands it’s not his fault I feel like this.