My wife and I have been married for a year now and I already feel no love for her. She's changed quite a bit after we got married. We do not engage in any from of sex. We realized we are incompatible. She won't drive but keeps on complaining about how I drive. Literally, at every turn, she's scared I might crash and feels unsafe with me in the car (even though she has driven thousands of miles with me in more difficult terrains). We fight a lot. And when we don't, her remarks are awfully hurting. Just to even answer a simple question, she would taunt me and use indirect statements that seem like I'm getting in her way. I realized she's mentally unstable and cannot take stress. I really want this marriage to work but I feel absolutely no love in this moment. I do fall in and out of love, but the bad parts have started to overtake the good parts. And since I'm unsatisfied and I'm not the kind of person to cheat on her, it makes me feel frustrated with myself because I can't see her crying and won't want to break our marriage. I feel attracted to other women but won't act unless I'm no longer with her. Luckily, we don't have kids yet, but I am unsure if this marriage will last. I wish someone could advise me. I just feel very confused about what to do from here. I'm scared that I'll make the wrong decision if I leave her, and she doesn't want separation so there's no other way. Either I be with her and stay suffocated, or I leave her and find out if it's a mistake?


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