I’ve been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 3 years. It is by far the healthiest and most fulfilling relationship I’ve ever been in. While on vacation I walked in on him watching porn in the shower. We had a long discussion about it because to be honest I kind of lost my shit a bit.. he says he watches it every so often because it’s “quick” and then he can go about his day. He also said he knows it’s not “real”, it’s just for the convenience of it, and that it doesn’t make his feelings for me any different and that it isn’t a competition because it’s always better when it’s with me. But I just can’t seem to let it go.. I think about it constantly and worry how much he’s watching and that maybe some days he’d rather just watch porn instead of the actual act. Our sex life is pretty healthy, we’re very affectionate in many other ways besides sex, and I just want to move on from this.. so I guess my question is- men who are in healthy loving relationships… are you still watching porn? Is that normal? And if so does it make you feel any different about your woman or give some sort of unattainable fantasies? And women, are you okay with your man watching it? Does it worry you or make you feel insecure? I’m ridiculously anxious and just looking for some peace of mind from others in the same boat.