My 25f bf 26m of 2 years has always been threatened by the thought of me using my sex toys when I’m alone. For some background, I own several toys that I go to when I cannot see him in person and I use masturbating as generally as a stress reliever and to manage menstrual cramping. He has always explained that clitoral toys don’t bother him as much but toys that are inserted vaginally make him uncomfortable. On top of all that, he asks me frequently if I use internal sex toys in which I can only assume is an effort to make sure I don’t use them. I don’t lie and I admit that sometimes I do use internal toys as my choice of pleasure. This sends him on tangents and I often get replies like “if you aren’t satisfied with me then say that”. These comments make me feel guilty and make me feel like I’m doing something wrong. He often gets really reserved and acts off towards me. Idk what to do. I feel like it’s hypocritical because he does follow a number of OF models on insta and it doesn’t bother me. If he needs it to get off then so be it but I don’t feel like him policing my personal time is right if he’s doing that. I’ve done my best to try and reassure him that toys aren’t his replacement but a fun way to make our sex life even spicier. I’ve tried numerous times to incorporate toys into our intimate time and it always ends in one of these argument/ debates. What do I do about this now?