My husband and I haven’t had sex in 3/4 years. We do love each other. I am going thru menopause and to be fair he has no sex drive at all. He just told me “I don’t ever want to have sex”. It’s not that I want it often but every now and again I do want it. When I try to touch him; he makes excuses like being to tired or I just peed. I even bought a martial aid for us to use. He never takes the initiative no matter how many times I tell him I need that. I don’t wanna change him, but isn’t that a part of marriage and compromise? 🤷🏽♀️ what to say or do. I am so hurt and lost for reaction to this news.