I’ve been having sex with this guy for the past 2 months. I’m naturally a very kinky gal and I tried having been be more rough with me like slapping but he won’t and says he’s not into that. I’m also super into choking him and biting him but he doesn’t really like that either. Now I’m scared to ask to try anything different but I get pretty bored of vanilla sex. I feel like what I’m asking him to do isn’t even that crazy. What should I do?