Wife(39) and I (34) have been married almost 11 years. For the past maybe 5 she has more distance herself for everyone. Kids me anyone it seems like, she’s a teacher and seems to be more interested in hanging out with previous students or going to current student activities. Weekends she doesn’t leave the bed room, weekdays she goes to work then goes to the bedroom for the night. Where she either works, colors, or reads. While I manage our 3 kids and the house with pets. We are barely intimate and if we do I feel it’s just part of her “check list” when I brought up the possibility during the week and have been laughed at and said you’re funny. It’s like im married but single, I have a forth child making sure she’s fed and taken care of. I don’t have a partner anymore I’m just alone raising 3 kids plus an extra. And also put down or yelled at if I don’t do something right her way, forget something or not paying attention to her or being all sweet and caring to her as she just lays in bed…. I am just alone.