I know the title sounds bad but this is all my personal feelings. I 18M and my 18F gf have been together for 3 years on and off but we’ve been friends before that. During our friendship we talked about certain things that were cringe and things we don’t agree with and a few of those things i personally don’t agree with are furies and anything that’s not considered normal , and I knew she was interested in that kind of stuff but I thought it was going to just be a phase and she’d grow out of it but now three years later it’s still an issue for me (I genuinely want to support her and ideally be interested in the same things but I genuinely can see myself supporting her).