My wife ands I have been married for 20 years. I’m 58 and she’s 52. I am not adventurous in the bedroom. Sex was always pretty vanilla (same old) and I knew for a long time she wasn’t satisfied. We’ve had other marital issues and haven’t had sex in well over two years. Now we’re working with a therapist trying to repair the relationship. Today the therapist (not a sex therapist) suggested buying a vibrator. My wife has never had one. I’m pretty inhibited and so I’m really uncomfortable with this idea. Not that I care if my wife wants to use it be herself but more that I should pleasure her with it. I do want to bring sex back into our marriage. I’d love to hear from other 50’s+ who introduced sex toys into their marriage at a later age. How weird does it feel and what impact did it have? And for guys who are not sexually adventurous, what did you do to spice things up?