We in the begining had a really good sex life. Like every day, but every year it would decrease by a few days. I asked after a bit why is it so mutch less than before ,when it started bothering me, like a year or two, he said he’s very tired at work. When i’d complaid, it would fix up a bit for a week or two and when i was happyer it would get back to how it was before me complaining. Now we have changed jobs. He doesnt like the new one eather but in this people are nicer than in the previous one. Now we have sex once a week maybe once every two weeks. When we went on a holiday to my familys place it took three weeks, basically two weeks of nothing and then we had to wait another week to get back from family house. So we didnt have sex for three weeks. I asked whats wrong, he said he’s tired. But during those three weeks of no sex he masturbated in the bathroom by him self. So he just doesnt want to do it with me. I then confronted him abt it, that its not rly ok that he prefers to masturbate instead of doing it with me. I asked if its too much work to do it with me then? He said i guess. So basically he doesnt want to do it with me and doesnt say why. I told that i feel rly bad abt it, i feel ugly and like we are room mates and why doesnt he even need me if he doesnt want me. He just replies that he does. And its a broken loop. I reacently bought a vibrator that he wouldnt need to put much effort, but tbh when you have sex and dont even feel wanted kinda feels like crap any way. What could be happening, what did i do. He is great in every other aspect and i love him, but this is making me super sad. I dont know what to do.