So I just changed medication and my libido is back to where it was 6 months ago. I may be perimenopausal. I don’t know why it changed so much. Back then I was so ravenous that I came to Reddit for help and y’all delivered. I ended up getting a dildo and was able to satisfy myself when my boyfriend couldn’t. But here’s the problem. I also had a hard time controlling myself. I became too flirty and almost crossed the line. I’m been thinking about my friend’s husband too much. I get turned on way too easily. Do I talk to my boyfriend about this? I’m afraid he’ll feel like he isn’t enough or that I’m not happy. Or worse—that I’m thinking about cheating. I brought up trying out a lifestyle club 6 months ago and he was not into it. I want to stay with him and also satisfy myself without cheating.
lol. After typing all this out it seems like maybe we need to see a sex therapist. Anyone have any recommendations?