So this is my first boyfriend. I’m a guy too. I’m a bottom.
In general we have really good chemistry and the first couple times went super well. Surprisingly well for my first times. But if you don’t know, taking a dick up the ass hurts a lot, Atleast for me. So I much rather go super slow, I like riding him because then I control it and I can just go back and fourth.
But recently if I tell him he’s going to fast or too deep, he’ll stop for a little bit but then go right back at it.
I’ve tried talking to him about this, like just to do exactly what i say because I’m sorry but if I’m going to have the pain I’m going to be the one in control of it. Right? But no he says he does, he promises he will. And he does listen to me, but as soon as he gets into the groove it’s like he thinks I just needed a break and goes fast or deep again. In no way do I think he’s doing it on purpose, he wouldn’t do that. I just think he’s fucking retarded.
I’m not even mad because it hurts a little, I’m mad because he’s just straight up being stupid.
Anyways. Any advice? Like I said I talk abt this nearly every time. And we almost ALWAYS have super good chemistry and communication.