My bf likes to do a lot of teasing, which i enjoy. He especially does it in times where we cant take it any further like when we're out or when its that time of the month for me. I understand that he likes making me desperate and yearn for him, but I feel like eventually should lead to a lil more?
I recently was on my period and he teased me the whole week. made me crave and desire him for that whole week, telling each other we couldn't wait for my period to be over(not big fans of making a mess). And when my period finally ended I took a nice shower, got all cleaned up, shaved, the works… just to get mild teasing and him knocking out.
This is not the first time this has happened. This happens a lot and it kinda just makes me sad. Ive told him about it and he kinda just tells me that he just wants to make me even more desperate. I dont really get desperate anymore I just feel… sad. I can usually tell when he gets ready to not do anything together, so i try to take over by kissing and loving on him, but he either pushes me away letting me know that hes the one in charge. It also happens the other way around when I take initiative, and tease him throughout the day. We get in bed just for him to turn over and go to sleep.
I know he loves me, and I always tell my self he's just tired because of how much he works. But Im starting to hate simply turning off the lights and just masturbating while he's asleep next to me.
Am I doing something wrong? Am I not doing enough? Could it be that he's loosing interest? I feel like im loosing my mind.