im in a new relationship and the guy im dating keeps getting soft. i never had this problem with previous partners and he said he hasn’t either. we’ve only had it a handful of times and half he’s gotten soft before he even puts it in. first time i asked him he just said he got into his head, second time he was sick. and last night he wouldn’t tell me why. I gave him oral and he was hard whole time he went down on me willingly and was hard until it was time to put it in again. i asked him if it was the way it tasted and he said yes? he said it tasted sweaty. but i had showered like 5 hours before and even like an hour before we did that i had to pee and rinsed it with water to make sure it didn’t taste like pee. First time he ever went down on me was out of the blue and it was after a 10 hour shift and i didn’t shower and he had no complaints. i’m feeling very insecure. i lost some weight and he saw the way i looked before and said he preferred it when i was bigger so now im wondering if he just doesn’t like my body and that’s turning him off too. but i don’t know what to do about the “ smell.” i don’t eat a lot, i have an ed and i don’t drink a lot of water either but i take cranberry vitamins and ph balancing vitamins. i shower everyday. i’m really confused.