So I ‘24M’ am married and have been for around two years now. My wife ‘23F’ and I have problems like everyone else but our sex life has definitely taken a turn for the worse. I make attempts to have the conversations on what she needs sexually and they seemingly go nowhere I ask what she needs and she says she doesn’t need anything or that we can try talking her through sex. It’s not my usual personally but it’s what she needs so I try. She makes attempts at getting me sexually interested but she’s either dry downstairs, or only wants it when it’s convenient for her. I’m not interested in making her have sex when she’s interested so more often than not I end up in the bathroom with ole reliable.🟧⬛️✋🏾
I have no issue doing foreplay, I’m always excited to go down on her but nothing really seems to get it going or start the mood. Lately I’m tired of trying to the point where we tried having sex last night, it barely felt good and there was too much pausing while we tried. I straight up got frustrated and lost interest, I said nevermind it’s fine and just went to lay with her and cuddle. I’m sexually frustrated, I don’t plan on turning to infidelity, but on top of everything else we have going on a bad sex life is definitely shifting the dynamic from bad to worse.
I express patience through the difficult times, understanding, interest in being sexually generous but extremely I’m fatigued at this rate!!!